Accepting and refusing help is a mental block, an it’s a develop in mind from childhood days, in pre-primary school “sharing” is a value teaches in school, but in real life, there are number of reasons we accept or refuse to help others. The ego trap plays an important role in help factor, it’s like a cancer, and it will eat you inside. And we lose many opportunities in life due to EGO. It’s a different chapter.
Yes you might refuse to help to your subordinate, friend and family. There is number of reason why you not help others, you might have a fear of success rate of your friend if you help him. Jealousy is one part of that.
Remember refuse to help is like closing the door for opportunity, you cannot improve yourself until you help others. As per Zig Ziglar
“You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help enough other people get what they want.” — Zig Ziglar
Nothing is permanent if you have skill to help other go and definitely help others, which will help in increasing your self-confidence.
Social reason to not help others, your simple help will change your friend’s life.
Refusing to help others and accept others help is like a two side of same coin. Those refuse to help others are people not accept other people help. If you ask for help or accept other people help is not a weakness, nobody in the world has everything, I don’t have a financial skill few year back, but I ask for help and accept help, my financial life improve dramatically, and my financial knowledge is my strength now.
Remember accepting help is not a sign of weakness, and it’s a main problem in accepting help. If you are honest and ready to work then lot of people ready to help you.
Help only those people, who are honest, have integrity and ready to help him first. And he has a burning desire to do something. Don’t expect special thanks for the help, few people help you but they expect thanks, if somebody thanks you then it’s ok, if not don’t bother continue your help agenda. Expectations hurt you, don’t expect it at all.
So, help others and get others help, it’s a win-win situation. Remove this mental block, it’s a main problem in your life, be honest and comment in the box below, from whom you accept help and who will help you, and in which manner.
To Your Help!
Harish S Kawalkar
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